You be You: Powerfully Authentic

 
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What does it look like to be a powerful woman in the 21st Century? Powerful and authentically female?

Great question, isn’t it? One I don’t believe many are asking today. Instead, the question we as females should be asking is how we fit in as women in a man’s world. Some believe the more women act like men, the better it will go for them in the work world. While this may be likely true on one level, the statistics show there is still a glaring lack of women in top leadership positions. So, is it really working for us? Is mirroring men in the workforce, emotionally and otherwise, really beneficial for women?

When we hear the word Da Vinci, we feel the weight of greatness upon that name. It’s not just a word, but perhaps a phenomenon demanding honor and even awe. When you hear the name, “Mona Lisa,” a wildly known Da Vinci painting comes to mind. When you hear “Fauxna Lisa” a $25,000 knock-off of the Da Vinci Mona Lisa, you may raise an eyebrow at the price, but likely you won’t feel awe and honor or even remember the painter’s name is Mark Landis. Why? Because the Fauxna Lisa is hanging in a coffee shop, a replica of something else that is an original, where it is said that 6 million people view the real Mona Lisa annually at the Louvre.

When women become male-like at work (act like men), we essentially become a Fauxna Lisa. Yes, we may carry an eyebrow raising salary assigning a value to us; but imagine being the priceless women we truly are and bringing that through the work doors. When we try to become someone else, especially another gender, we leave behind some of our most valuable authentic assets and present at best a replica of something else that may be great (or may not be great).

Women, our brains are wired differently than men’s brains, and instead of fighting this, we need to begin to embrace this difference. This doesn’t necessarily mean showing every emotion we feel in every setting, though. Is it okay to cry at work? In this day and age, I’d say “don’t,” unless you are in private with another female you trust. But as far as crying at work in front of men, I’d refrain. Instead, use your words. Men are not typically wired this way, are not comfortable with emotions, and it brings an element of “the personal” into an arena that prides itself on saying, “It’s not personal.”

Will it always be this way? I hope not . . . But for now, we need to start with ourselves. Understanding the amazingness it is to be a female . . . intelligent, determined, nurturing, visionaries, protective, creative . . . I could go on, but for now, you be you and start bringing who you are into the office. Believe in you, listen, hear, speak-up, see . . . Because you are needed! And eventually in being authentically your best you, you will not just be needed, you will… we will… be wanted for who we are, because as women, we truly are amazing.

Would love to hear stories of how you brought your authentic, amazing self as a woman to impact your organization!

 
Barbara Hogan

Barbara Hogan is the Founder, CEO, and President of Timbelo Inc. Barbara is a Sr. Ordained Chaplain and has spent her career helping marketplace leaders live out kingdom principles.

Over time, her role has expanded into that of a Chief Spiritual Officer (CSO) which includes spiritual guidance, relational healing, family mediation, retreat facilitation, prayer advocacy, accountability and training. Barbara has been credibly positioned as a woman in the CSO role so that she can raise other women up alongside her.

Barbara also speaks locally in the community as an advisor, panelist, facilitator/moderator, interviewer, and is a podcaster for fadedRED.

http://www.Timbelo.com
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